Today was a better day, but not anywhere near the two glorious days we had at the end of last week. Ella got a good night sleep and I am extremely happy that one of us did. I was up all night, my thoughts of Ella kept me from dreamland. I am so ready to find some answers.
Ella spent most today with Dani. She arrived while I was getting my hair done and was snuggling with her on the couch when I got home. It’s the best feeling in the world knowing that the person caring for your child loves them unconditionally.
She was obviously tired, and I can’t say I blame her. She barely got any sleep the night before, and I am certain was exhausted from all the crying she did yesterday. Her meltdowns definitely take a toll on her little body. As Dani was rubbing her head she was doing the tired head bob. She fights naps so hard lately. She doesn’t want to miss a second of what’s going on.
Steve took the boys to his parents house for some quality time so I could rest, and Dani took Ella out to see her friend Carole! I got a full thirty minutes of sleep in before the thunder abruptly woke me up. Once I was awake I couldn’t get back to sleep, but have to admit I enjoyed the quiet that filled the house. I can’t remember the last time I was home with no children in sight. Part of me did miss them though. I was experiencing a cluster of mixed feelings. Lol.
I eventually had to drag myself out of bed to drop my car off for an oil change. Dani managed to keep Ella awake after she got home, despite the long blinks and tired whining. She gave her a bath, fed her dinner, and spent the rest of her time hanging out with her. I could hear them laughing and playing in Ella’s room. Sometimes if I walk in to see them Ella’s mood changes, so instead I check the camera in her room. Watching the two of them interact is the sweetest thing. I promise I am not being creepy. Dani totally knows.
In eleven days Dani is leaving to go to Florida for a month and a half. I have not sat down and told Ella yet, but I know she is going to miss Dani so much. While she won’t be able to communicate it, I have no doubt she will know that Dani is gone. She is truly an honorary member of the family. Her absence will be felt by all. Jack is totally going to need to find someone else to flirt with while she is gone. We do have a new comm hab worker coming in, Amanda. She is great with Ella and I know she will be fantastic.
These long days with Dani are the best. It gives us some time to recharge and Ella lots of time to spend with her best buddy. I do believe it’s the best of both world for everyone.
Tomorrow I am taking Ella to the allergist and am very curious to see if they can shed some light on some allergies that she may or may not have. There have been multiple times we have seen skin reactions after Ella had eaten. Like most things with her though, nothing is ever consistent. Stay tuned for an update, but don’t be surprised if nothing turns up. That wouldn’t be abnormal for Ella.
Thanks you again for all the sensory feedback today. You guys are awesome!
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